Note: I think that in traditional psychotherapy they trust too
much in miraculous words and comprehended sentences.
In movie therapy self-relationship has very important role, because -
at the end - in every therapy it’s client who’s making the journey on
rocky path and doing the hard work. Good therapist can be, at ones best,
like a guide or a coach: encourage in efforts, have functioning visions
of possibilities and be able to notice real obstacles.
There are two basic reasons why we can’t solve a problem:
a) The problem is too big or too complicated to be worked out at once
b) Our life handling skills are too insufficient
If a problem is too big it can’t be solved in one piece. We must cut
it in smaller pieces and solve them one by one, important pieces first
and less important later. People can move mountains if they really want to.
Insufficient life handling skills cause problems, especially in human
relationships and managing in every day life activities.
Sometimes our need for help is very narrow, sometimes it is wide.
We can learn human relations in every day life or with the help from
some communication form (movies, literature, poetry, music, etc.).
We need to practice to be able to face emotions and to express them. If
we can’t do it, we are like prisoners in chains: we are not able to use
our possibilities.
Therapy is like driving school: we look for and give that preparedness
a person needs to start independent learning.
Together we can try to find those basic tools and learn how to use them but
after that basic training people have learn to manage on their own.
In movie therapy we use living, moving pictures in a way or another in aware
and target-oriented healing use. Therapy means interaction where we try to
have positive, wanted, impressive, constructive, healing answer to our
problems, difficulties, harms, illness that prevent our good enough life.
Therapy means giving and getting, searching something new and adapting
with it.
Like in all art therapy in movie therapy movie is just equipment, like a
bridge between people, needs and meanings. Movies are a way of communication. Movies don’t
have holy force and they don’t make miracles on their own but in good hands
they can be very helpful.
5.2. Healing relationship
There is always some important positive, healing relationship in every
recovery.
There are no healing words, pictures, movement, sounds etc. itself. What
helps is that healing relationship we can touch with words, pictures,
movement, sounds etc.
Meaningful relationship depends on intensity and capability to satisfy some
important need.
In movie therapy we can use all kinds of movies in therapeutic way; directly
or indirectly. It depends on use what kind of a movie we should choose.
It is important to notice that no genre is better than others. Question of
movies therapeutic affect depend on its capability to answer our needs with
healing relationship. All kinds of movies can be very therapeutic. Serious
art movies are not more therapeutic than comedy or horror or action or sex
movies.
We use in movie therapy movies that can reach out and touch viewer’s needs.
Therapeutic experience is more important than artistic enjoyment. Movie that
has good and affective therapeutic response is good movie no matter what
critics or authorities think.
Like I told earlier: movie therapy is just stepping in children shoes,
looking for its foothold. It is one reason why we are thinking and writing
more sketches than doctrines with final solution.